We all sat at the table, enjoying dinner together. Somewhere within our conversation, the kids asked me an interesting question:
“If we remove all the basic necessities like water, food, clothes, air, and shelter, what are some things you can’t live without?”
I told them, “That’s pretty easy. There are plenty of things I can live without, but if I had to choose, there are five things I can’t live without.”
Each plays a vital role in my daily life.
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Coffee
If there’s one thing that starts my day, it’s a fresh brew cup of coffee in the morning. Drinking coffee in the morning has always been part of my family’s daily life. For those who grew up in the islands, and I bet other places as well, the smell of coffee is like a wake-up alarm.
After the earthquake in Haiti, I used to drink a couple cups a day and sweeten. However, it wasn’t serving me well. My heart sometimes felt like it’s skipping a beat; I’d get dehydrated too fast and then my teeth stain was too noticeable.
So I reduced my intake to two cups in the morning, which is all I need. With coffee prices rising, keeping my intake low not only benefits my health but also helps me save money along the way.
Camera
As a photographer, I love the ability to stop time, capturing memories that I can revisit and relive. That’s why I always carry a camera with me.
If you’re looking to go somewhat pro or appreciate the vintage aesthetic of classic cameras, one of my favorites is the Fujifilm X-T20. It’s a great camera to start with, great image quality in a compact, travel-friendly design. Compared to my Canon 5D Mark II, it’s much easier to carry around and doesn’t intimidate people, like I’m invading their privacy, making it perfect for taking shots at anytime of the day.
Computer
My computer is my gateway to creativity, productivity, and connection. Whether I’m working on my blog or researching, it’s the tool that keeps me moving forward. It helps me document my journey, share knowledge, and stay on top of my financial goals.
These days, we all carry a miniature computer in our pockets, a mobile phone that we can’t live without, making this an essential tool that most people can relate to. From paying bills and sending money to scouting locations and so much more.
Gym
If you’ve been following me for a while, this shouldn’t come as a surprise; it’s definitely something I can’t live without. The gym has always been something I’ve enjoyed, but life circumstances had me slacking big time. Living in the city made it tough to stay committed. I’d either go two or three times a week at best, or I’d stop altogether, telling myself I’d start over soon while still getting charged every month.
Now that I live in Upstate New York, the gyms are less crowded, making it easier to stay consistent. Back then, I had to hop on a bus and then a train just to get to the gym. Now, I’m only 10 minutes away and paying just $12.99 a month—you can’t beat that!
The gym has become one of my escape environments. It’s where I clear my mind, push my limits, chat with peers about anything, recharge mentally and physically. Ever since I committed to my workout routine, I’ve felt more disciplined, focused, and in control of my thoughts.
Family bond
First and foremost, Mrs. TGFG makes it all possible. Like any couple, we’ve had our ups and downs, but we’ve always found a way to push through with a positive mindset. Without her support, this journey wouldn’t be possible.
Being surrounded by loved ones is something I never take for granted. My kids are still young, and I cherish every opportunity to “lecture” them—at least, that’s what they call it. Every conversation is a chance to guide them, and prepare them for the real world, and that’s something I take pride in.
At the same time, I’m constantly learning from them. Their fresh perspective keeps me in tune with the new generation, reminding me to stay open-minded and adaptable. I enjoy learning and challenging myself, so why not embrace the lessons they have to offer?
Final Thoughts on the Five Things I Can’t Live Without
After sharing my list with my kids, they looked at me and asked, “Why are you so simple?”
I told them, “Life is what you make it. You’re free to choose what makes you happy. As you grow, you’ll realize that many things were just fantasies with no true purpose. For me, living simply and within my means is just who I am.”
So, at the end of the day, coffee, my camera, my computer, the gym, and the bond with my family are what keep me grounded, motivated, and fulfilled.
