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Lately, Haiti has been a central topic of discussion, not only throughout the year but especially during election cycles, just as it was in the last one. Despite the lies and harsh narratives imposed upon us, our resilience, pride, and hospitality continue to shine through.
Waking up in Haiti is a sensory experience: the sound of birds and roosters crowing at the top of their lungs, the rich aroma of brewing morning coffee drifting through the air, signaling that it’s time to rise.
The neighborhood stirs with life. The sound of children getting ready for school, breakfast being prepared, and in the distance, the hum of activity from the Madan Sara, the women who carry the economy on their backs, moving products from urban producers to rural consumers. In the background, the loud music of passing taxis fills the air.
Embracing Hospitality and Family Values
Growing up Haitian, the moment you step outside, tradition dictates that you greet your neighbors or even complete strangers with a “good morning.” There’s always someone willing to chat, as long as time allows. It often seems that conversations revolve around someone fighting an illness or the risks they’re facing to provide for their family.
Our resilience is unparalleled; although it shouldn’t have to be a way of life, it feels ingrained in our DNA, passed down since the days of the Haitian Revolution over two hundred years ago.
Being Haitian means keeping your house clean and welcoming guests at any time. If visitors stay the night and there’s no spare room, it’s customary to offer them your own bed, making sure they feel at home. We share meals, stories, and laughter as freely as the breeze.
When it’s time for guests to leave, our elders will discreetly slip them a piece of paper with money wrapped inside, even when they don’t have much to give. And if they have nothing else, they’ll offer one of their most cherished possessions as a gesture of appreciation.
In Haiti, neighbors are more than just people living next door—they are family. You can’t misbehave and hope to escape unscathed. The community will correct you long before your parents have the chance.
As the day wears on, the smell of spices fills the air, signaling dinner is being prepared. Food is our way of showing love, and it’s not uncommon to see extra portions cooked, just in case an unexpected guest arrives.
Connecting with Our Ancestors Through Stories and Music
Our ancestors left behind more than just memories—they gave us stories, cuisine, and songs, weaving their traditions through generations into a vibrant celebration of life. Our humility makes even the harshest days feel lighter. Even at our lowest, we find a way to smile and persevere.
In the evenings, we gather around our grandparents or a storyteller, listening to tales passed down through generations—our living libraries.
The beat of the drums connects us to the land, serving as a bridge of communication with those who came before us. Animal sacrifices become a way to share a meal with everyone around, ensuring no one is left hungry.
The beauty of the Haitian Creole language lies in how specific words and tones can vary depending on whether we come from the north or south. The proverbs we share serve as our guiding light.
Honoring Our Heritage
There’s no single way to honor your heritage; it can be expressed in many forms:
Teach the language to younger generations. Language is a vital part of culture, providing the ability to understand one another without judgment and fostering a deeper connection.
Listen to the music. Today, supporting our artists is easier than ever by streaming their songs. It’s also the perfect opportunity to keep the rhythm alive and never forget how to dance.
Support Haitian organizations and businesses. It is often said in the Black community that the dollar circulates only six times before leaving, and we are part of that statistic—no doubt about it. But we have the power to change this by making Haitian businesses a priority whenever services are needed. Investing in our own helps strengthen and uplift our community.
Share Stories. Our stories span generations and cover all genres some are fictional, some true (with a few twists through the generations), and others seem to come out of nowhere, depending on who’s telling them. In the end, they all boil down to a life lesson or a form of warning.
Get Involved.
In Conclusion
Our resilience and deep-rooted traditions continue to shine despite the challenges and negative portrayals often imposed on the country.
For those who had to leave Haiti and immigrate elsewhere for a better future, remember that wherever you go and whatever you do, Haiti remains a part of you, and you remain a part of Haiti. From the food you eat to the dreams you pursue, the connection endures.
Our ancestors have given us a blueprint, and it’s okay to block out the noise. Our duty is to follow their wisdom and make choices that honor both them and the land they fought for.
Growing up Haitian means being a descendant of a rich and powerful culture.
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